The BandAid Strip
Counselling/Coaching Services

Place of hope, healing and new beginnings!
Heté Jordaan
Specialist:  Life Skills
(Educator/Trauma therapist)

thebandaidstrip@gmail.com
Pretoria 
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082 392 1663
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Hi there,

... and welcome to the place of hope, healing and new beginnings, offering
LIFE-CHANGING SOLUTIONS with unique benefits via:

a)   A practical, fun and affordable, self-help LIFE MAKEOVER e-program (via email) for adults, helping you to cope with life (cost:  only R200 for the first 6 weeks + R200 for the following 6 weeks to complete).
b)  An easier version of the Life Makeover e-program for kids, called SMART KIDS - giving your child an unfair advantage to cope with life and growing-up more successfully (cost:  R200 for 6 weeks to complete).
c)  e-Counselling/Coaching via affordable email (cost:  R100 per session).
d)  A do-it-yourself, easy, step-by-step uncontested divorce e-book in English to help you save a fortune (cost:  R200).
e)  An Afrikaans version of the same divorce e-book (cost:  R200).
f)  All products lectured/shared at practical workshops, support groups, fundraisers, schools, churches, public speaking at functions, etc. in Pretoria vicinity as well.


Benefits:

1.   The BandAid Strip USES a powerful combination of AFFORDABLE counselling and coaching:
-  Counselling is:  Please, help me find out what is wrong with me or my life ...
-  Coaching is:  Now, show me how to fix it ...

2. It OFFERS emotional healing to lost, broken and scarred people, especially after an abusive marriage, a bad break-up, a crippling divorce or any other life trauma - restoring self-esteem, self-worth, self-confidence and a new life-focus.

3.  It EMPOWERS people by teaching them how to heal and transform their own lives by easy, step-by-step, self-help, training e-courses (via email) - helping people to help themselves.

4. It ASSISTS people with marriage/relationship problems, helping couples to improve their relationship by helping them find their own solutions to problems - helping them not to give up until it’s over, and not to let go until it’s done (e-counselling).

5.  It HELPS people to make calm, realistic and well-considered decisions in case of separation or divorce, warning them against pitfalls and coaching them towards the quickest, least painful and amicable settlement and divorce = divorce mediation via email.

6.  It SUPPORTS people with d.i.y. divorce guidelines and encourages them to stay the course until the settlement and divorce are final.

In order to make these unique services AVAILABLE and AFFORDABLE to all people across the nation, the BandAid Strip utilises popular and most effective e-therapy via e-courses and email counselling/coaching.

However, practical workshops, support groups, public speaking/short lectures at schools, churches, events and fundraisers are available in Pretoria area. 

Why is e(mail)-therapy so popular, convenient and successful?

Apart from the fact that many people all over the world are currently in need of additional help to deal with the trauma of life in a chaotic world, it helps to remember that the idea behind counselling dates back to the period where people first start to communicate.  It simply means sharing problems and burdens, or giving support, help or guidance while finding solutions together.

You can, therefore, START YOUR OWN CYCLE OF HEALING with unique therapeutic advantages through e-therapy which is more affordable, convenient and even anonymous, as it happens in the privacy and comfort of your own home or office ... while nobody knows your name

You don’t need to leave the safe boundaries of your comfort zone anymore in order to reap immediate, long-term and permanent therapeutic advantages.  It also remains easily accessible, day or night.  e-Therapy can therefore provide a safe and supportive environment where you can continue with your normal life while receiving support in your own time, at your own pace and in your own space

Furthermore, narrative therapy, where you replace the spoken word with the written word, is highly recommendable for its unique benefits.  As written words linger much longer than a spoken word, you have the advantage of reading the same conversation as many times as you need, providing more than enough time for effective reflection.

e-Therapy might have disadvantages for certain people, but the anonymity of e-therapy allows for an element of dis-inhibition in that there are no social or non-verbal cues to overcome, no embarrassment to deal with and no concerns about confidentiality as you remain safely “hidden” behind your own computer. 

REVIEWS:

HOE OM jou eie egskeiding te doen en ‘n fortuin te bespaar ...  (Uittreksel met toestemming geplaas)
         “Beste Mevrou Jordaan, my egskeiding is verby en dis nou tyd om dankie te sê vir al jou hulp.  Dit was nie ‘n maklike pad nie en sekerlik ook nie ‘n pad wat ek ooit weer wil oorhê nie, maar ek aanvaar, danksy jou hulp, dat ‘n egskeiding die beste oplossing vir ons was.
          Jy het destyds jou doen-dit-self egskeidings-handleiding aan my gestuur en dit was die beste R200 wat ek nog ooit belê het, veral omdat die waarskuwings en wenke wat voorin vervat is, my gehelp het om ‘n rotsvaste saak te kon bou voordat ek die egskeiding aangedurf het.
          Die feit dat hierdie handleiding in Afrikaans was en punt-vir-punt gelys het presies wanneer ek wat moes doen, het die grootste stres en moedeloosheid van my afgehaal.  Ek het presies gedoen soos dié e-boek vir my gesê het en toe dit by toesig en onderhoud vir die kinders kom, het ek die Klerk van die Hof genader vir hulp - net soos jou e-boek voorstel.
          Hierdie was een van die moeilikste besluite in my lewe, maar met jou deurentydse ondersteuning en moed inpraat terwyl ek jou handleiding kon volg, het my anderkant die skeihof uitgedra met my vuiste omhoog.  Dit was sekerlik die grootste oorwinning van my lewe juis omdat jou e-boek my gehelp het om deeglik voorbereid te werk te kon gaan.
          Deur self my egskeiding te kon hanteer en myself ‘n klein fortuin te kon spaar daardeur, het goed gevoel, maar nie halfpad so goed as die wete dat ek daardeur my selfrespek en menswaardigheid kon terugeis nie.  Dankie dat jy reg langs my was al was jy die landbreedte weg van my af.  Dankie vir jou egskeidings-handleiding, vir al jou moed inpraat en gebede ...  D. van Havenga - Kimberley”

Kan ‘n verhouding/huwelik per epos gered word? ...
(Uittreksel met toestemming geplaas)
         “Middag Hete, ek weet nie of iemand ooit omdraai om vir jou dankie te sê nie, maar ons (ek en my man) wil vandag vir jou dankie sê vir alles wat jy vir ons beteken het en gedoen het.  Sommer ook vir al die ander mense wat jy daagliks help om hul probleme te oorkom.
          Jy het ons huwelik gered en ek wil jou herinner hoe teenkantig my man was oor jou epos berading.  Boonop wou ons hulp hê met egskeiding-mediasie, want ons was reg om mekaar te vermoor met ons arme onskuldige kinders in die middel.  Deur eenkant met my te kommunikeer en my die kans te gee om uit te pak, en aan die anderkant met my man te kommunikeer en hom die kans te gee om sy saak te stel, het jy daarin geslaag om ‘n nuwe brug van versoening tussen ons tot stand te bring.  Nie een van ons het gedink dit is moontlik nie.
          Eers het jy ons gehelp om ons egskeiding en skikking in vrede uit te werk, en toe wou jy net nog een laaste vragie aan ons albei vra:  Hoe seker is ons dat ons hierdie finale stap wil neem, want ...  Toe het jy ons oorreed om eers ‘n time-out te vat en weer te gaan oordink. 
          Jy het ons verbied om vir 6 weke met mekaar te praat of van mekaar te praat.  Ons moes leef asof die ander een nie bestaan nie sodat ons kon voel hoe ons lewens sonder mekaar sou voel.  Dit was skokterapie.  Sodra een van ons die reëls wou breek, dan het jy jou stem dik gemaak en het ons dan soos gehoorsame kinders geluister.
          Na die 6 weke proef-egskeiding wou jy by elkeen van ons weet of ons werklik in ons harte kans sien om alles waarvoor ons gewerk het en geskep het, weg te gooi en ons het albei laat weet:  Nee!  Nou na 2 maande se afrondingsterapie saam met jou, is ons huwelik weer nuut en vars, opwindend en romanties. 
          Baie dankie vir alles, ook vir die egskeidings-mediasie en die doen-dit-self egskeidingsboek wat ons kon gebruik sodat ons gereed kon wees vir ons egskeiding terwyl jy gedetermineerd was om ons huwelik te red, en jy het.  Baie, baie dankie vir dit alles ... M. en T. Bodenstein, Pretoria”

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Why is the BandAid Strip the
PERFECT SOLUTION to your problems?

What makes the BandAid Strip so
UNIQUE, DIFFERENT and SUPER EFFECTIVE?


BECAUSE ... this is THE ONLY PLACE where you can learn
HOW TO become your own counsellor/therapist/
life coach/cheerleader, or whatever you may need
to heal, restore, fix, tweak, reclaim or uplift your life
in a practical and fun way
that is quick, easy and affordable,
with immediate to permanent results -
super effective and convenient
,
delivered to your inbox to complete
in your own time, place and space ...
gifting you a new lease on life, happiness and success!


MY MISSION STATEMENT
:
Some people dream of catching stars to glean from them some light, ... but I would like to shape a star and send it whirling into flight.
The product of my passion's fire to mold it with my naked hands, ... and feel the searing pain of flesh as my star grows bold and grand.
If then I offer it to God, I'll fling it with all my might ... and gasp as it, a piece of me, assumes its place in the heavenly night.    H.J.









                                                                                              
                                                                                        Website designed by Heté Jordaan - 2006